Life according to the script.
Publikováno 29.02.2016 v 18:50 v kategorii English: mens, womens, rapport, přečteno: 113x
It is our opinion but our only consideration. It is not necessarily true. Our opinion is based on our faith, our own egos and our own dream. * Toltec teachings
Lots of relationships will end even sooner before he can even start and just because in your mind you create your own scenarios, whether a given situation, or look at how you look, or the meaning of a sentence in a text message he wrote. On what is brought forth in your mind it would be not such a big deal, but if you do not play accordingly then. Your vision of reality may vary considerably. You feel frustrated and deceived, but the only thing that disappoints you and rips it is only your personal idea.
One of my friends came up perhaps a thousand scenarios for one innocent word "sometimes" but to start from scratch.
He met with one sympathetic man who liked her very much. Since their introduction a few times accidentally met, and you could say that he treated her some affection. They exchanged a few text messages and even invited her to her cottage, where he spent time with his friends, but she did not like it then binding invitation. She could not stop thinking about him and after a brief pause, she decided to take the reins into their own hands and wrote to him if he went for coffee together. The answer was not long to wait and read: "Hey, sure sometimes we can go."
One would say that it is quite nice and positive response and I would have rebuked the earliest possible date of the meeting, but had this answer rather irritated. Created to own the situation perfect script, how their conversations will take place. Apparently she had to suggest the exact date, time and place of the meeting (no, now exaggerating a bit, but you know what I mean, simply had a different idea). She began to analyze the meaning of individual words and the greatest attention to the aforementioned seemingly innocent little word "sometimes."
His answer planted the seed of uncertainty. She began to think about it probably is not worth otherwise would not write this or that, and she was not going to impose. Her tension and subsequent provocation resulted in mild hysteria. "How do you like ?! That meant EVER ?! So as never wants me to go for a coffee or not?! ......"
In the following days the situation who felt offended consulted with many friends and one friend. She wanted to know more opinions on the matter. It emerged from what it ought to be just as cell phone rang with his answer. Indeed it would to like to have coffee, as indeed himself wrote: Hi, sure ..... " I can not remember whether he had anything to answer, but I do know that coffee or any other meeting never gone .
She now admits that not understand why it had taken so as it took. On the one hand, he says that it probably should be. On the other hand, will forever hang in the air "what if", but it is too late.
Do not take affect its fictional scenario and try to keep a cool head. When something develops outside your vision and I am not sure just ask the question. We can not assume that we are all equally.
Komentáře
Celkem 0 komentářů